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The Hidden Burden of Probate: Why Executors Face an Emotional and Administrative Marathon

9/16/2025

Probate often arrives during grief—and it can take months of admin for executors. This guide blends empathy with practical steps to reduce the burden and help families prepare.

When someone passes away, their family faces two challenges at once: the emotional weight of grief, and the practical responsibility of sorting out their estate. For the executor — the person legally appointed to carry out the terms of a will — this process is often far more complex and time-consuming than most people realise.

What the Numbers Tell Us

From our own ProVault survey (2025):

  • The average person holds 3.9 bank accounts, 2.2 insurance policies, and 1.9 investment accounts.
  • 69% of respondents have neither a will nor a lasting power of attorney.
  • 58% say their next of kin do not fully know where their accounts are (including those who said “no” and those who said “some/maybe”).

External sources underline the scale:

Probate at a Glance

The hidden admin your executor will face — and why organising now eases the burden later.

3.9
Average bank accounts
ProVault survey (2025)
2.2
Average insurance policies
ProVault survey (2025)
1.9
Average investment accounts
ProVault survey (2025)
69%
No will or LPA
report having neither a will nor a lasting power of attorney.
ProVault survey (2025)
58%
Next of kin don’t know
say their next of kin do not fully know where accounts are (includes “no” and “some/maybe”).
ProVault survey (2025)
External context
• Probate processing: GOV.UK — probate waiting times halved (2025).
• Will prevalence: MaPS — over half of UK adults don’t have a will (2025); National Will Register — National Wills Report 2024.

The Time It Takes: Probate Timelines & Delays

  • If everything goes smoothly, probate can take as little as 4 weeks for online applications (GOV.UK).
  • Paper-based applications average 15 weeks to process (Compare My Move).
  • For many “normal” estates, the process takes 6–12 months, and complex cases can run longer (OCG Legal).

The Emotional & Practical Cost to Executors

  • Switching from grief to action — locating accounts, policies, investments.
  • Administrative overload — HMRC forms, courts, valuations, notifying beneficiaries.
  • Time and uncertainty — worrying whether everything has been found and handled correctly.

The Gap That Causes Most Pain

  1. Lack of a will or clear instructions — intestacy rules can cause delays and unintended outcomes.
  2. Unorganised or unknown assets — detectives first, executors second.
  3. Delays in registrations and permissions — accuracy and third parties matter.
  4. Emotional load — most executors are grieving family members, not professionals.

What Can Be Done: Planning & Preparation

  • Write a will and/or lasting power of attorney, and review periodically. Write a will · lasting power of attorney
  • Create an estate inventory — accounts, policies, investments, pensions, digital accounts.
  • Communicate clearly — let your executor and next of kin know where to find key information.
  • Use secure digital tools to store and share the essentials when needed. secure digital tools · privacy & security

ProVault’s Role

We’ve built ProVault to help families organise what matters: a secure place to store important documents, account and policy information, and to ensure loved ones can access what they need, when they need it — so executors spend less time searching and more time honouring your legacy.

Sources
National Wills Report 2024 — UK National Will Register
ProVault Survey (2025)